9 July · Thursday
Setting up & opening
Sound ceremony. Decorations. Potluck. Hands and hearts wanted.
An unwedding festival · July 2026
For four days, we are gathering at 8 Lornie Road — a house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Worlds will collide. Bring your spark. Come ready to play.
with all our love,
Guy, Tian & Cosmo
↪ welcome inside
At a glance
↪ one big colourful pop-up village
9 July · Thursday
Sound ceremony. Decorations. Potluck. Hands and hearts wanted.
10 July · Friday
Tea ceremony, vows, a surprise. Mantravine plays into the night.
11 July · Saturday
Performances, dancing, food, magic. The day belongs to all of you.
12 July · Sunday
Water. Bubbles. Singing. A soft, sweet ending.
↪ that's us!
Your hosts
A house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Our worlds are colliding — Europe, Singapore, Australia, everywhere in between.
Come ready to play, co-create, and share what you have — your secret talents and skills, your cheese, your loudest laugh.
we can't wait. thank you for being a part of this with us!
The rules
(we made one up later)
01
Say yes to the weird. Dance with someone new. Try the cheese you can't pronounce.
02
If you're not having fun, we're doing it wrong. Find us and we will fix this.
03
The cape. The glitter. The mismatched socks. An unexpected accessory. We want all of you.
04
Everyone makes or brings something. Yes — even if you "can't cook" — get something amazing. We'll know.
FAQ
No, we are not separating. This is simply not a traditional wedding. But are we actually officially getting married? You'll have to come to find out. PS: You will be asked to pitch in to help and get your hands dirty.
Whatever you want — but light, comfortable clothing suitable for the tropics is best. Shoes are optional. Colours, sequins, festival-style outfits and outlandish accessories are necessary.
Cheese. Liquor. Anything else you want to share. Fans to stay cool. Festival-style outfits, colours, sequins, outlandish accessories.
DUH. Parents, we can unite to organise babysitters in the evening. Bring an extra change of clothes and costumes for the little ones. There will be face painting (so nothing too white) and loud noises (bring ear protection).
Food will be provided on 10 and 11 July. We'll do a potluck on the 9th and 12th. We'll be ordering vegan options without allergens, but if you have a lot of allergies please bring some snacks for yourself too. Please let us know if you have a severe life-threatening allergy and bring an epipen. We'll have first aid folks around.
Ask Me Anything
Tian answers here so we don't have to do it twice ✦
Don't see your question?
a.
Address. MRT, bus, taxi. Camping at Lornie.
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Day by day. How to pitch in. Volunteers.
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A local's tips. Weather, food, laws, packing.
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