An unwedding festival · July 2026
Welcome to
the
Kaleidoverse
For four days, we are gathering at 8 Lornie Road — a house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Worlds will collide. Bring your spark. Come ready to play.
with all our love,
Guy, Tian & Cosmo
↪ welcome inside
The program
Four days of gathering
Days open by default — come back each morning to see today's plan. Live — today's day is open. Past days collapsed below, click to reopen. Thank you for being part of it 💛
Where it happens
Bungalow — indoors Jungalow — outdoors 01
9 July 2026
Thursday
Set up & potluck
Bring your hands and your heart. Meet and greet for all the happy campers and extra hands. We'll start with a beautiful sound ceremony and authentic-relating exercise. Then we'll need muscles (moving sound systems, hauling things) and creativity. Calling all decorators to help make the space beautiful.
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9 July 2026
Thursday
Set up & potluck
Bring your hands and your heart. Meet and greet for all the happy campers and extra hands. We'll start with a beautiful sound ceremony and authentic-relating exercise. Then we'll need muscles (moving sound systems, hauling things) and creativity. Calling all decorators to help make the space beautiful.
The schedule
- 10:00 Build the Kaleidoverse 🏡 🌿
- 13:00 Opening Ceremony with Tian and Guy 🏡
- 13:30 Authentic Relating with Jules and Jac 🏡
- 14:30 Decorate the Kaleidoverse 🏡 🌿
- 16:00 Ice Baths with Chun 🌿
- 16:00 Garden Games with Bianca and Mel 🌿
- 17:30 Potluck Dinner 🌿
- 19:30 Sound Bath with Jac 🏡
- 20:30 Wine Tasting with Jesse 🏡
- 21:30 Acroyoga Jam with Shin 🌿
- 21:30 Music Jam with Ben 🏡
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10 July 2026
Friday
Ceremony & fire jam
This is when we hold the traditional Chinese tea ceremony, the Unwedding ceremony, and exchanging of vows. There's a special surprise after that as well — which you'll find out about on the day. We'll light the heart at sunset, then Mantravine play their amazing music for us. Followed by juicy beats from BB Queen and The Broccoli Smuggler.
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10 July 2026
Friday
Ceremony & fire jam
This is when we hold the traditional Chinese tea ceremony, the Unwedding ceremony, and exchanging of vows. There's a special surprise after that as well — which you'll find out about on the day. We'll light the heart at sunset, then Mantravine play their amazing music for us. Followed by juicy beats from BB Queen and The Broccoli Smuggler.
The schedule
- 10:00 Breathwork & Hang Drum with Chun 🌿
- 10:00 Brewtiful Coffee with Kopi Soh Zenn 🏡
- 11:00 Ice Baths with Chun 🌿
- 11:00 Yoga with Jac 🏡
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Joke-Off Open Stage with Luke, Shanti & Naia 🌿
- 13:00 Orgasmatronic Head Massages with Max 🌿
- 14:00 Durian Party with Alice, Flo, Cha & Gatsby 🌿
- 14:30 Tea Ceremony (Family) 🏡
- 16:30 Unwedding Ceremony & Vows 🌿
- 17:00 Surprise Segment #1 🌿
- 17:30 Unwedding Dinner 🌿
- 18:00 Roast and Toast Speeches, hosted by Ollie 🌿
- 19:45 Starlight Alchemy 🌿
- 20:00 Mantravine 🌿
- 22:00 House Party 🏡
For the kids: no fire for little ones — but they can play with other flow toys.
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11 July 2026
Saturday
The Festival
Magic. Music. Dancing. Performances. Food. Whatever everyone wants to bring. This day belongs to ALL of you. If you have a talent, a game, a poem, a puppet show — this is your moment. Expect performances and dancing into the night.
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11 July 2026
Saturday
The Festival
Magic. Music. Dancing. Performances. Food. Whatever everyone wants to bring. This day belongs to ALL of you. If you have a talent, a game, a poem, a puppet show — this is your moment. Expect performances and dancing into the night.
The schedule
- 10:00 Coffee Rave with Zenn, Arne, Martin & Max 🏡
- 10:00 Acroyoga Jam with Shin & Suwan 🌿
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Let's Talk About Love, hosted by Pam & Kat 🌿
- 14:00 Gringo Bingo with Thiemi and Menno 🏡
- 15:30 Sparkle Party with Flo, Cha & Max 🌿
- 17:30 BBQ Dinner 🌿
- 18:00 Pink Blossoms Beer Truck (until 21:00) 🌿
- 19:30 Surprise Segment #2 🌿
- 20:00 The Jukuleles 🌿
- 22:00 House Party 🏡
It will be loud — bring ear protection for the little ones if you have any.
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12 July 2026
Sunday
Pack up, kids day & potluck
We need all hands on deck again to pack things up. Then we play with water and bubbles out on the grass, and end with some singing and lots of hugs. A soft, sweet ending to the Kaleidoverse.
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12 July 2026
Sunday
Pack up, kids day & potluck
We need all hands on deck again to pack things up. Then we play with water and bubbles out on the grass, and end with some singing and lots of hugs. A soft, sweet ending to the Kaleidoverse.
The schedule
- 10:00 Ready, Set, Play! with Laura and Pete 🌿
- 11:00 Pickles and Tickles with Luke, Shanti & Naia 🌿
- 12:00 Lunch (not provided) 🌿
- 13:00 Tear Down + Pack Up 🏡 🌿
- 17:00 Kids Parade 🌿
- 17:30 Potluck Dinner 🌿
- 19:30 Closing Ceremony with Tian and Guy 🏡
↪ that's us!
Your hosts
Guy, Tian & Cosmo
A house full of memory, soon to be full of you. Our worlds are colliding — Europe, Singapore, Australia, everywhere in between.
Come ready to play, co-create, and share what you have — your secret talents and skills, your cheese, your loudest laugh.
we can't wait. thank you for being a part of this with us!
The rules
There are only four.
Actually five.
(we keep adding them)
01
Openness & curiosity
Say yes to the weird. Dance with someone new. Try the cheese you can't pronounce.
02
Fun mandatory
If you're not having fun, we're doing it wrong. Find us and we will fix this.
03
Be your most fabulous self
The cape. The glitter. The mismatched socks. An unexpected accessory. We want all of you.
04
Potluck, days 1 & 4
Every one/couple/family brings something. Yes — even if you "can't cook" — bring something you love.
05
Stay safe
No cigarettes under the tentage or indoors. There are children around — please smoke in the designated smoking areas. Thank you.
06?
↪ up to you
There will probably be more.
Bring one of your own.
FAQ
Questions you might
be having
What is an unwedding?
No, we are not separating. This is simply not a traditional wedding. But are we actually officially getting married? You'll have to come to find out. PS: You will be asked to pitch in to help and get your hands dirty.
What do I wear?
Whatever you want — but light, comfortable clothing suitable for the tropics is best. Shoes are optional. Colours, sequins, festival-style outfits and outlandish accessories are necessary.
What should I bring?
Cheese. Liquor. Anything else you want to share. Fans to stay cool. Festival-style outfits, colours, sequins, outlandish accessories.
Are children and pets welcome?
DUH. Parents, we can unite to organise babysitters in the evening. Bring an extra change of clothes and costumes for the little ones. There will be face painting (so nothing too white) and loud noises (bring ear protection).
Will there be food?
Food will be provided on 10 and 11 July. We'll do a potluck on the 9th and 12th. We'll be ordering vegan options without allergens, but if you have a lot of allergies please bring some snacks for yourself too. Please let us know if you have a severe life-threatening allergy and bring an epipen. We'll have first aid folks around.
Ask Me Anything
Got a question?
Tian answers here so we don't have to do it twice ✦
Can I bring more people?
Is the tea ceremony more for family?
8 questions pending answers...
- · Babes! If I am able to come tomorrow evening and Sat evening - need to RSVP and see whether got space, or can I squat somewhere! Timing wise - 830 onwards? — from Lynne
- · Am I? — from Myself
- · Is there parking on site or is it better to come via public transport/taxi? — from Bianca
- · Question is for Thursday Day 1! Since you'll need help with set-up, happy to come starting 10am as per the Google Sheet. Want to double-confirm that since the venue is a house, I can bring a shower towel to shower after & set of clothes to change into after so I'm not ruining my fun Un-Wedding Festival Clothes whilst setting up? I'm sure its a full house of guests staying at the venue, so I want to be sure this is cool! — from Noël
- · So, turns out I have a bit of a role... hoping I'll get a demo before hand...! also, speeches.... do I need to prepare one? Or are you relying on Dad :D — from Your soon to be actual legal sister in law (Heidi)
- · Is there a nursing room? I have a 2 mth old baby and my husband and I need to be able to feed him while we're there~ — from Aries
- · Is formal attire - suits and dresses -appropriate for the actual wedding ceremony, or is that festival hippy style too? — from Kat
- · Should we want to give you a hongbao...would you prefer SGD or Euros? :) — from Noël
Don't see your question?
Drop it here. Tian will answer.
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Venue & travel
Address. MRT, bus, taxi. Camping at Lornie.
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